Mastering the Art of Self Love Part 2 - What if we only believed?

In my Blog last week,  MASTERING THE ART OF SELF LOVE  I wrote, “So to develop the mastery of Self Love we need to first dissolve this current belief system and upgrade the software to a new, improved and positively focused belief system. Belief systems which will serve us, support us, and only allow self belief.”

So what if we only believed? What if we had no doubt and only self belief? Imagine the world if we were a society able to stay in total self belief! Imagine what we could achieve, imagine how we could thrive!

Sounds so simple when we stop to think about it and yet the only thing standing in our way right now is the level of self belief we have!

So what is the key difference between self doubt and self belief?

Self doubt is our negative self, our limiting self; the words and thoughts which bring on fear. The Key here is that when we tap into that voice in our head, when we tap into the negativity we realize that it is actually not our voice at all- it sounds and feels like it- but self doubt is an accumulation of all the negativity and disbelief we receive (and unfortunately belief) from others. And the problem with that is that doubt and disbelief is a projection of their own inner fear, so when we buy into that doubt we buy into and take on their fear- completely disempowering- don’t you think?  

What makes us listen to others?

When we do not trust ourselves enough

When we are not connected to our higher intelligence and inner guidance

When we disregard our own intuition

When we hold onto past experiences we may have labeled as “mistakes”

When we are driven by the fear of rejection or the need of approval

And most importantly when we continuously look for external validation (anything outside of ourselves) rather than our own sense of gratification

Self Belief on the other hand is listening to our own inner voice, listening to our intuition and inner guidance and having 100% trust, faith and belief in our capabilities. We appreciate and acknowledge the guidance from others and choose as to whether we need to consider those thoughts yet we do not allow them to disempower us or bring us out of belief. And as we maintain that level of self belief we sustain our own levels of enthusiasm, passion, courage and drive- we remain unstoppable and driven by our purpose. Another key factor is that we remain Compassionate. We are able to notice the projection of fear from another person which helps us have a deeper understanding and acceptance of that person without judging them or thinking they are taking away our power.

So gaining this level of SELF BELIEF is essential if we are going to take our relationships to another level and transcend ourselves. By having self belief we will stop mirroring each others fear and stop projecting doubt onto each other. If we only have self belief within ourselves and learn to eliminate the voice of doubt then we will only see belief in others. IMAGINE the level our relationships will evolve to if we completely believe in others!

We will stop making decisions based on fear and have deep authentic conversations based on TRUTH and give the gift of FREEDOM to ourselves and others; after all TRUE LOVE IS FREEDOM.

It is clear we all need a new relationship model to work towards and when we begin to align ourselves with virtues and values like Truth and Freedom we master the art of self love and create extraordinary relationships.  Bring it on Baby!

Have a great week.

Lots of love,

Cheryne

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You may also be interested in my previous post: Change your Beliefs change your Reality